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Comment on Future Sister In Law Needs More Money For Wedding? by salut

salut — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 05:28:47 +0000

Wow. I’d probably just give her a punch of the face. That’s incredible. I applaud your patience and your grace and composure dealing with the world’s most insulting ungrateful and insensitive brat. It is YOUR BIG DAY. You should call the shots. Doesnt she understand that you’ve got a full iteniary and a list of other things to be concerned about other than how she’s getting her bum over there?
SHe’s a LOSER. I hope someday, someone will do the same at her wedding. Who knows? maybe noone will attend hers! I’ve never heard of such a thing. Where i come from, people give money as tokens for the wedding couple. Not the other way around.

Comment on Future Sister In Law Needs More Money For Wedding? by Owen E

Owen E — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 08:29:35 +0000

I had family come from all over the province we live in and the one I grew up in and we did not pay their way. I think if ther person realy want to be apart of the wedding then they make it happen. It is not your fault that your fiances sister is on welfare if they can not afford to come then they can stay at home you have been more then generous this lady is taking you and her sister for a ride.

You are more then understanding I would have told them to stay at home that the amount of money you have already spent to have them come is more then enough.

I guess you resolved it personally my way of resolving would have been to tell them to stay at home.

Comment on Future Sister In Law Needs More Money For Wedding? by Greg B

Greg B — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 01:28:11 +0000

This sister is no good and a negative person. Any person that are a negative influence on you or your family should be dropped ASAP. Negative people have a way of bringing the people around them down. Don’t let this happen. Now is the time to establish bounds for this sister and family. You and your fiance should talk and get on the same page with how to deal with her sister and, once you have a united front, you two will be a very strong and successful couple.

Comment on Future Sister In Law Needs More Money For Wedding? by kiwi

kiwi — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 02:24:07 +0000

There are cheaper places to stay in Vega. And dinners in the hotel buffets are likely cheaper than filling a luxury condo with food.

I am glad you resolved this, but, ya know? I’d have put my foot down. Don’t let these money hungry jerks manipulate you any more, after this.

Comment on A big wedding or small wedding? by rico

rico — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 07:01:07 +0000

way i see it is this.No couple should be forced to spent more then they want or end up in debt when they did not want this.
Have a small wedding if you want but if family/friends insist on a big one my suggestion is then tell them you are going to share out the cost.
Co-worker had this issue where he wanted a small wedding as he was trying to save up and remain debt free.
fiancee wanted big.
Funny part is neither she or her family could afford this.His family was against a big wedding.
In end he drew up a spending plan and shared it out to her family .They quickly shut up.

Comment on A big wedding or small wedding? by GLAM GIRL WEDDING PLANNER

GLAM GIRL WEDDING PLANNER — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 19:24:17 +0000

The best thing is for you to do what would make you happy but not alienate (check spelling please ) your loved ones . I If you are going to be uncomfortable with all of the attention and spending all that money do it your way and don’t worry about them .. they won’t be mad long …

Comment on A big wedding or small wedding? by CBT Princess

CBT Princess — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 18:31:39 +0000

I like small – but it does not have to be Vegas – you can have a nice wedding anywhere

Comment on Future Sister In Law Needs More Money For Wedding? by keepyourhandsoffmycat

keepyourhandsoffmycat — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 05:36:20 +0000

Tell them to GET STUFFED! They are just greedy and stingy pigs. Don’t help them anymore. Tell them you don’t want them in your wedding. They are just milking you for all your worth. You have been more than generous and have given them much more than they deserve. DON’T HAVE THEM IN YOUR WEDDING, does not matter who they are!

Comment on A big wedding or small wedding? by iloveweddings

iloveweddings — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 11:05:46 +0000

Hi and congratulations!

Personally, I LOVE small weddings. But that’s me. I can tell you this, though….do NOT let your family and/or your friends influence your decision. In the end, you and your fiance need to be the ones happy with whatever kind of wedding you have…whether it is big or small.

Yes, big weddings are fun….but so are small ones!
Big weddings are much harder to plan….lots more stress, hurt feelings, and money.

You and your fiance decide what you want and stick with your decision!

Comment on Future Sister In Law Needs More Money For Wedding? by MelB

MelB — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 03:41:51 +0000

What!! No way, let them do this and you will be paying crap for them for days. Every time there is a function they will throw out a guilt trip so you will fund things for them. NO WAY, you are already supporting them because they are on welfare. What nerve. Thank gosh I am not the bride to be, there would be some drama up in that camp. My sister in law will not come visit unless she “gets a ride” becasuse gas is too much for her BRAND NEW Ford Expedition…..and she lives in Section 8 housing! I know exactly how they are and I feel for you. Do not let her walk all over you with the pathetic guilt trips. Their financial situation is their own doing, not yours. You have been more tan cordial, much more than most people would be.